113. Free
I am running out of marker pens! *wail*
I have been in this kind of relationship. It wasn’t great.
ETA: Go sign up for the Greatest International Scavenger Hunt the World Has Ever Seen. It’s cheap, it’s fun, the guy in charge is bonkers, you could win a trip to Rome, and if there are over 1,000 participants we’ll get into the Guinness Book of World Records. And if you want to be on someone’s team, I would love to meet you – I’m down as Cassian Lodge.
ETAA: Eet eez now closed for this year.
Ugggggggggggggggggggggggggh!
I haven’t been in this situation, but I’ve read about it enough to be terribly annoyed.
A lot of people in the LJ poly communities I belong to refer to this as OPP, or One Penis Policy.
you know, in a way this is just as bad as those guys who think all lesbians only need a ‘real’ man to turn them straight – both don´t count sex among women to be of equal value.
Yes, I had a similar arrangement with my ex. He could never understand why I was angry about it.
My very first foray into polyamory was an arrangement like this. My ex never understood why I considered this unfair. Then he got all upset over the fact that one of my lesbian friends had a crush on me and forbade me to continue my friendship with her. Very thankful I kicked his ass to the curb.